Monday, July 19, 2010

Infatuation.N.True love

"The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected."- Nicholas Sparks

  • Infatuation is when you think he's as sexy as Robert Pattinson, as smart as Obama, as noble as Mona Lisa, as funny as Stephen Chow, as athletic as Kobe Bryant.
  • Love is when you realize that heis as sexy as Stephen Chow, as smart as Kobe Bryant, as funny as Mona Lisa, as athletic as Obama and nothing like Robert Pattinson-but you'll take him anyway.
The different between true love and infatuation?
You are In Infatuation when:

  • You see the other person as perfect
  • You want to get own needs met/ selfish
  • You spend all your time with the other person
  • You can Quickly ''fall'' for the other person
  • All your Other relationships and friendships deteriorate
  • You are solely Dependant (emotionally) on the other person
  • You experience Jealousy frequently
  • Your relationship lasts for a short period of time
  • Distance strains and often puts an end to the relationship
  • Your Quarrels are serious and common
  • Your Quarrels can seriously damage the relationship

You are Truly in Love when:

  • You see the other person's flaws and still loves them
  • You Want to think of your partner first before yourself/ selfless
  • You still spend time with others-(your partner accepts YOUR personality and YOU)
  • You Take the time to build the relationship
  • Other relationships and friendships grow stronger
  • Trust and understanding results in less severe, less frequent or NO jealousy
  • You can encompass a long-term commitment
  • Your relationship survives and is strengthened because of distance
  • Your Quarrels are less serious and less often
  • Your infrequent Quarrels strengthen the relationship
Do you love someone even more than you love yourself?
you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.

Could you live without each other?

As "White Knight" says:
"On Earth, no one knows what love is. All we see and know is the effect of love."


Are you truly in love or madly infatuated??

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